As I mentioned in my last post, October is an eventful month. One year ago at this time we were playing co-host, along with Lincoln School, to the regional Tri-Association conference. This year The Carol Morgan School in the Dominican Republic is the host. Most of our students will take the PSATs tomorrow, and the quarter comes to an end this Friday. As I write this, the Costa Rican under 20s are playing Brazil in the semi-finals of the World Cup–an event of such local fervor that President Arias gave public workers an afternoon furlough to cheer on the National team.
Although no such furlough is in the works for our students, nevertheless, next week our boys and girls basketball teams will not only be co-hosts of the AASCA basketball tournament, they are both defending champions. Even without furloughs, we plan to support our teams through attendance at the games and a special event to kick off the tournament. Our student council has planned a pep rally for Wednesday, the day before competition begins, and teachers have agreed to take their classes to cheer on our teams. On the boys’ side, CDS will play host to Balboa Academy from Panama, Colegio Maya from Guatemala, and Costa Rica’s AIS. MBS will welcome the International School of Panama, Maya of El Salvador, and CDS Guanacaste. The girls’ schedule depends upon who they face in the early rounds of the round robin. All action shifts over to MBS after lunch on Friday, with the finals of both the boys and girls to be held at MBS on Saturday.
If you are a parent of a student-athlete it is important to support them during times of competition, but it is equally important to help them find ways to balance their responsibilities. The life of a student athlete is filled with times of intense emotion and stress. It is easy to put aside school work while training for these events, and then to complain about the expectations that seem to conflict with the big game or games. A good student athlete plans accordingly and works ahead of time with teachers in order to lessen the pressure during these big events.
AASCA tournaments are never a surprise. Schedules are announced well in advance. Maintaining a balanced work schedule sometimes requires planning, and student athletes must learn to set their priorities carefully in order to manage practice schedules, work demands, and games.
It is not always possible for every teacher to postpone tests, quizzes or projects for the handful of athletes competing in these competitions. The big picture reminds us that we support other student athletes–golfers, equestrians, tennis players, and gymnasts, to name a few who also compete all year in various sports–as well as actors who appear in local theater productions, dancers and musicians who have equally intense and competitive schedules. Rearranging schedules, coordinating make-ups, adjusting assessment times, as well as accommodating individual needs for illnesses and family emergencies challenge the abilities of our teachers and strain the actual number of hours in a day. It is easy to cry foul or unfair when the teacher maintains certain expectations during these events, but if both sides communicate in advance, much of the perceived unfairness can be handled in a way that is mutually satisfactory.
This year our student athletes have a little luck on their side as the tournament actually kicks off at the start of a new quarter. Still, it is important to learn this balancing act now–it is one of the many individual responsibilities that school teaches indirectly and that students must learn mostly on their own–but with some guidance from all of us. We are proud and supportive of all of our kids who strive to achieve and learn at CDS as well as outside the school, and we do our best to show them our support. However, one of the most important, non-graded lessons kids need to learn is how to manage their time and balance the activities of a full and active life.









